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The Fear Of Speaking Up And The Quick Fix
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The Fear Of Speaking Up And The Quick Fix

RWAS Podcast: Episode 42

In this empowering episode, we explore how speaking your truth, asking better questions, and expressing yourself openly builds deep self-respect and inner confidence.

In this value-packed episode, we cover:

  • Why appreciation instantly disarms people who try to shame you (01:10)

  • How thanking someone for feedback protects your emotional power (01:22)

  • Why questioning others builds self-respect instead of conflict (01:38)

  • How asking for clarity strengthens your inner confidence (01:52)

  • Speaking your mind as a pathway to self-trust (02:05)

  • Why expressing yourself is an act of inner leadership (02:20)

  • Building a relationship with yourself in a world that teaches you to ignore it (02:38)

  • How saying “yes” to life is the beginning of self-alignment (02:55)

  • Why trusting yourself is the cornerstone of emotional resilience (03:08)

  • Being authentic even when it’s uncomfortable — and how that expands your life (03:22)


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Key Lessons From This Episode

Lesson 1: Appreciation Disarms Shame

Responding with gratitude takes the power away from anyone trying to make you feel small.
“People lose their leverage when you don’t take the bait.”
“Appreciation is an unexpected form of strength.”

Lesson 2: Asking Questions Builds Self-Respect

When you seek clarity, you show yourself that your curiosity and needs matter.
“Questions are courage in disguise.”
“Every time you speak up, you reinforce your own worth.”

Lesson 3: Self-Trust Comes From Expressing Your Truth

Sharing your thoughts—even imperfectly—strengthens your belief that you can rely on yourself.
“Your voice is how your inner self knows you’ve got its back.”

Lesson 4: Authenticity Is The Fastest Path to Growth

Being honest, even when uncomfortable, aligns you with the person you’re becoming.
“Authenticity isn’t easy, but it’s always liberating.”

Lesson 5: A Relationship With Yourself Is Your Real Foundation

In a world full of noise, distractions, and expectations, the bond you build with yourself determines your emotional freedom.
“You’re the one person you can’t escape — make that relationship solid.”

Lesson 6: Saying Yes to Life Creates Inner Expansion

Life responds when you open yourself to possibility instead of fear.
“Openness is the beginning of transformation.”

Lesson 7: Trusting Yourself Is an Act of Safety

When you can rely on your own choices, the world becomes less threatening.
“Self-trust turns uncertainty into opportunity.”

Lesson 8: Discomfort Is Evidence of Alignment, Not Failure

Every time you choose honesty over silence, discomfort is just proof that you’re growing.
“If it feels uncomfortable, it probably matters.”

Lesson 9: Speaking Your Mind Moves Your Life Forward

You stop waiting for permission and start leading your own journey.
“Your truth is the engine of your momentum.”

Lesson 10: Inner Respect Grows Through Action

Every question you ask, every boundary you set, every truth you speak — they’re all deposits into your self-worth.
“Self-respect isn’t built in your head — it’s built in your actions.”

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